Cheating is a topic that people often times avoid, not because they think it's unimportant but because talking about it leads to things that lead to other things no one really wants to talk about. The real truth. Many times I have read articles and seen people ask the inevitable questions :
*Who cheats more, men or women? *
*Why do people cheat? * and so many other things.
I do not have all the answers but I will be answering from my perspective.
I believe cheating is a personal decision. No one satisfied with what they have in their partner, looks at someone else. Am not saying a cheating spouse lacks something in their partner, am saying a cheating spouse is looking for something else that their partner maybe isn't giving OR it may just be pure greed. Heck..... What do I know?
A lot of people are quick to associate infidelity in relationships and marriages to a particular spouse forgetting that every human being is guilty. And yes, women cheat as much as men do(if not worse).
Are their solutions to infidelity? I am no pshycologist but personally I feel changing your personality, habits or way of life is not a guarantee that a person stays but it sure is a guarantee that you lose yourself overtime trying to be someone else. Not blaming yourself and moving on, is the only way to get over infidelity.
Determine not to be bothered (I know it's hard), live your life for you and you alone.
Lastly, never blame yourself for a persons behavior. You are not responsible for anyone's decisions or choices. Do not become someone you in no way wish to be cus it feels easy dealing or getting over a loss that way.
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