times,mayb due to the fact that they really want a good life for thier parent in which I strongly agreed with .

Yes, most times, it because of these thoughts. They feel they have to wait until the grass is green before they give to their mum and dad

The thing is there will never be a best time, they will always think it's not enough

That's why I said this 👇👇

I do not want to wait until I have access to a large sum of money before I give them some. I may never think it's enough if I wait...

unwanted things like death might actually struck if we are of the mentality that things must be fine before we will take good of them.

No one wants their parents to die nor other bad things to happen to them, no. But we cannot tell what the future holds. Whether or not they live longer, we should do the little we can for them. If they live long, good, if they don't, they will be resting with joy and happiness of a life well spent.

cause I really hate thr ideology of spending much during burial ceremony ,while less was given to them while they are alive

it's sucks...... really 😩