That isn't the best way to start the new year.

I don't believe someone has to act in a defined manner when dealing with a loss. Duties don't exist in that sense. Other than from time to time take a moment to remember the good (and the bad if one wants) about the person that has left us. My experience is that I don't even have to take such a moment. Regularly peeps that have left me, pass by in my mind, like at least two of them just passed by when writing this comment.

Anyway, have a safe drive today.

Wish your wife and you all the best in the coming period.