Orrrrr, do not pursue the road to some 'romanticised' outcome and /or position when the road is something you do not like. Why trying to pursue something when the road to that goal is a road of much effort and time full of tasks you do not like? Better to find things you like, and do that. Whatever the outcome will be. I do believe this brings much more happiness in life. I for one, cannot do tasks all day long that I do not like. And cannot imagine I would ever try to pursue something while the road to that goal is full of activities and tasks I do not like.