i agree of course..our needs are SO valid,, as are boundaries.. its just about how we communicate them.. what a difference it makes..

with NVC its about understanding the feeling and then realising the need we have.. such as freedom of expression.. etc.. once we can really establish our needs .. which can be tricker than we think.. we can then really speak about that.,. and bypass many other things we may focus on .. and then react to..

its all about how we frame things, and then communicate them really.. hopefully youll see very soon!..