You took the girl you want to marry home to see your parents and she didn't drink the water she was served because the water didn't look clean and she went straight to your car to get a bottle water instead, She refused to use the shabby-looking toilet your parents are managing because she feared infections and also complained so much about heat that you had to move into a hotel the next day, but your parents got angry over her conduct, convinced you that she is not a wife material. You agreed with them and started keeping away from her..My brother come close, listen very well...

YOU ARE A FOOL A GREAT FOOL,

You get money to chase woman, buy car and lodge for hotel...But you no fit renovate your papa house, at least and improve their living standard. Like I said,

YOU_ARE_A_FOOL A_COMPOUND_FOOL.

There is something called STANDARD and you don't expect a woman who has planned her life very well and worked so much to get to where she is to come and eat shit because you wanna marry her...please go home, Charity begins at home!!!
You have to ask yourself first if you are a husband
material.