Mehn, that shit is mad insensitive. I have friends who have known me for close to a decade who couldn't say things like this.

Unless, the person is giving you money (and had something in mind for you to spend it on), or you owe the person something, the person should rest.

My friends even do some of these things and wouldn't come at me like this. The person probably feels they are holding you accountable, but they are just being very crappy.