You probably are a better, more sane and more functioning person than I am, man.

I am wound so tight and obsess about these things because it's all I have.

Also, all this stuff takes efforts and at the end of the day, most people don't like confrontation - it's stressful and takes so much time and energy compared to just suffering in silence, which is stressful, but it doesn't come with as much immediate risk I guess.

I'm tired of suffering in silence though. How much better would the world be if all the good and decent humans in the world just stood up to the assholes around them and refused to allow bad behavior to continue?