Trust is expensive. That is the stigma that has been circulating in society, and it is true.
Talking about beliefs, talking about trust and honesty Trust can not be juxtaposed with money and matter because trust can only be proved by a long process.
Trust can go easily, but it's hard to come back. Because, to cultivate trust alone takes a long time, then keeping trust is a struggle.
Believing is one of the highest values in a life. Trusting, believing, entrusting is a sign that there is a great belief in one thing or one. This is what must be deeply understood as to why the belief is so great.
A mother may never allow her child to go far and take a study outside the city if she does not entrust it to her child. Likewise in a household, a husband or wife may not be open to each other if on one of them is no longer a sense of trust.
Believing is a strong relationship and bond. Where someone gives confidence to the person, that he is capable and appropriate. Then the trust of others to us is very valuable and expensive.
Before you build the trust of others outside, build the confidence of the people closest to the well will certainly train themselves to be trusted outside environment.
If you are a child, then parents give full confidence to you, so keep that trust. Taking care of yourself, choosing the environment carefully, and choosing your playmates nicely is a good way to build trust in both parents. Because in every belief given by them, there is great hope and prayer of salvation that parents paste for us as their children.
If you are a husband or wife, then keep what has been entrusted. Keep always hijab and interaction with the opposite sex that is not muhrim. Always open and engage the couple of things that happen in everyday life. Because a good wife of course he who can keep himself, and a good husband is he who is able to keep the heart and trust of his wife.
If you are an entrepreneur and a businessman. Of confidence must always always be obtained from the costumer by keeping every promise that has been made and agreed.
And in any relationship, trust must always be the main thing, because maintaining trust is just like keeping yourself, when there is a part of the injured, it takes time to be able to heal it. So keep the trust of others against us while maintaining the best.
Trust, titipan, or "amanah" is something we have to keep. Because trust is not just about something entrusted to us alone, but about how the quality of self to be able to defend it.
So, what are the consequences if the trust of people no longer exists to us? obviously, we will find it difficult to regain that trust. The difficulty will be more difficult if we do it to people other than family. Even family status can be distant if there is disappointment.
So the key is being able to be open, honest, not breaking promises, on time, discipline, and using trust as well as possible.
Being a priest or a leader, getting a job as a leader or being led, being a role model or being a mimic, being a parent or child, being a husband or wife, and being whoever gets the job and trust, it's good we take care of it as well as possible.
Because once the belief fades and diminishes, all will not return to normal.
Like a piece of paper, once he squeezed and tangled he would not come back as before.
Like a mirror thrown by a stone and certainly broke.
Perhaps we can just reunite the scattered fragments, but it will no longer be as perfect as the beginning.
Because the word "sorry" after removing a person's trust can be accepted, but sorry not necessarily able to restore the trust that once existed.
So, the best way to continue to be trusted is to always keep it.
Again, trust is a very valuable and expensive thing. Because once lost it, you will not get it back as it was in the beginning.
