Let me start by saying that some of us don't even know how to enjoy this sex that God has freely given to us. All this one that you people will just lock yourselves up inside the heat, close the windows, bolt the door, buy packets of condoms, drink sachets of tramadol, and still be doing it with a low voice so that your neighbours will not hear you people, on top of that you'll still be praying that pregnancy should not arise a second time , no rest of mind at all, please is that one sex?
I will not even talk about how the devil will just be fanning away your spiritual life with his face cap, you're just cheating yourself and you don't know it.
All those ones you're doing in your relationship and think is enjoyment is just like stealing meat from your mother's pot, you cannot enjoy it in peace, any little footstep you're afraid of getting caught, because you know you're not doing it the right way.
My dear why not just chill and wait to enjoy this thing with peace of mind when you're married? I mean, the kind of sex where you can be doing it and be cooking. The kind of sex where you can freely leave the windows open and even break down your door.
Let me share this secret with you, maybe you didn't know this yet;
God has given us specific instructions and guidance on every area of our life, i mean EVERY AREA of our Christian life, how to worship, how to pray, how to seek His face, what to do about our challenges, how to treat people who love and despise us, how to do our marriage, how to love our neighbours, i mean EVERYTHING, but there's one area that God have said nothing about, no guideline, no law, no principle, nothing,.....and that area is "YOUR MATRIMONIAL BED"
God knows how important that bed is to our marriage, He knows how much we enjoy that area, that is why He didn't put any ten commandments or heavenly constitutions around it, the Lord just removed His hand from that side and be like "you know what? do it as you please, just be enjoying yourselves, as long as both husband and wife agrees.
Guys, the full excitement in sex is when you are back from the alter with your wife, where there are no fears, no condemnation, or limitations.
" The kind of sex you can have on a Sunday morning before rushing off to Sunday school
" The kind of sex that you can boldly do wearing your Scapular and your Holy Rosary.
" The kind of sex where you can use the big family Bible on the bed to support her head.
" The kind of sex where you don't need condoms or performance enhancement drugs, or fear unwanted pregnancy.
" The kind of sex where you don't care if the neighbors are hearing your love hymns.
" The kind of sex you can have with Hillsong and Pastor Joel Osteen's tapes playing in the background.
" The kind of sex where the Heavens smile every time you cleave, because what they see is a Spirit exchange.
Wait for it guys, wait for the kind of marriage where the whole house is your marriage bed, from the kitchen table to the couch, to the staircase, to the pool, to the garden, to the bedroom, to your gate, and to your toilet so that you can finally have your bath.
Wait for it, it might look tough now, but the wait is always worth it.
#am a ulogger
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