I think you do a pretty good job at engaging with others. Admittedly it is hard to engage as much as I would like.

I remember when I first started using chat rooms and message boards and how fun it was to engage with so many others. Although I was younger and had way more time on my hands than I do now. If I had that sort of time I would be much more engaged with others. But as it is now I just do the best that I can!