Problems are infinite

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I was looking at my friend today, and I realized how he has changed over the years because he used to be one of the most loving, caring, and playful guys I've ever known. He didn't take anything seriously before he just wanted to have fun, but now there are a lot of changes about him, he doesn't say much, and he doesn't do much. I realize the more we grow, the colder he gets for him, even though people used to tell me that I'm also changing, but nothing compared to my friend because his own is obvious to the extent that his wife used to tell me that his husband is now a changed person, which I understand because sometimes it also surprises me on how fast people change.

The truth is so many things can change a man but in terms of life pressure. It is easy for a man to change just because the older we get the more responsibility that comes with it, and this responsibility comes with some kind of pressure, especially if you are staying in Africa where there is a limited opportunity for you to help yourself, so it is easy for people to give in into pressure. What happens is that this pressure kills their expression. They can't even express when they are happy or sad anymore. They have given in to pressure to the extent that even their loved ones question them daily to be sure they how fast people change.

Most people are lost in the process of finding themselves

In the process of finding ourselves, we lose our way, looking for only money, thinking when we get the money, we can cover up for times we have missed to be truly happy. We have focused on money alone, but eventually, when the money comes, we already have lost so many things peculiar to us and some other things that make us humans, which is to enjoy every moment of our life. So for this, we see enjoyment as a bad thing and as a distraction, and after losing everything that makes us human, we become colder and colder every day. Most time, so many men spend the rest of their lives like this.

Everything is important in a process

The truth is that time wasted cannot be recycled, and when we are in the process, everything that comes with the process matters. I understand the fact that the process is not always easy, and we have so many things that we want to do at the same time, but leaving one aspect of our life to do another will only create a void that we might live with for the rest of our lives, so instead of that, we must separate time for everything. We must prioritize what we must prioritize but never leave some other things behind, like how we feel as human beings and how we make ourselves happy and not lose our uniqueness. We must create little time for ourselves.

Problems are infinite

When we are in a process, the more problems we solve, the more problems we have, the more knowledge we have, the more complicated the problems might be, there will always be something that's bothering us that we wish we could solve, and if you are lost in this thought, we will only be looking for a solution for our problem and also forgetting ourselves. It is always better to remember to set out time for ourselves to make ourselves happy, to enjoy life, to spend time with our family to make them happy, and never to change because problems will never finish.