I leave it to God

A friend of mine called me and told me about his health condition and the way he sounds, I already know he is going through a lot because he was diagnosed the test shows he suffers from a disease. This guy is troubled, and he said he has not been sleeping for days, and he has no one to open up to, so he decided to open up to me. This guy is worried because his health issue is out of control, and drugs can not do anything about it; it is only a miracle that can save him.

I could not say much because I was once in his shoes. I was just worried about things that were out of control. I couldn't get my mind off it because I couldn't control it before I knew it another complication arose, I couldn't focus on any other thing, and different problems started to arise, I was having just one problem but before I knew it, my problem multiplied, and everything started to fall apart for me.

I don't even know how I got out of my situation. Still, one thing I am certain of was the genuine love that I was surrounded with. I have people around me and God. so I advise my friend not to worry too much and that everything will be OK, worrying will not change anything; it will only complicate things and make his life miserable, and one of the best things you can do, is he slowly shaped thoughts and look for a way forward. I know this is not easy especially if you are alone.

How can we truly control or change things we don't have power over?

It's common for people to worry when faced with different situations. As humans, worrying is a natural response, and the intensity of it varies based on how much the situation affects us. Often, we find ourselves worrying about things that are beyond our control or situations we can't change. We understand that these situations will eventually have an impact on us in some way. With experience comes the ability to let go of worries about things or situations that are beyond our control.

What can we do change our situation

One of the questions we ask about a situation we can't control and even though you do things about it, it will not change anything. What are the things for you to do? Some people will just tell you to wait and see how everything goes and Just accept your fate, and we should let The Universe decide it but the truth is, is that the right thing to do? Is there a way we can let the universe hear us?

In Africa, there are certain external forces that are beyond scientific explanation. This is why spirituality is prevalent among the people, and different religions are practiced. in Africa, people talk about spirits and supernatural occurrences due to experiencing unexplainable situations.

As for me, I believe in supernatural beings, the one I believe in is God and I leave all my problems to him especially the ones that are beyond my control, I know that my actions will not change the situation, so what I do instead is just pray to him, and I can tell you for a fact that most times, miracles always happen in my life, things just happen beyond explanation, and I would see a positive result.

I know we all have ways of approaching situations like this, but that's just my secret, and just feel like sharing with you that when I'm in a situation that I know is beyond my power I leave it to God.