When I was struggling, I was completely broke. I called one of my family members for help, but he turned me down. It was a painful experience and made me realize I was crazy. Nobody cares about your problem; you just have to fight for yourself because you're on your own, and ever since then, I never complain, even when life doesn't treat me well. I don't complain. I move on to the next.
You see, the complaining will not change anything. It will only make your problem worse. It is better to keep trying and pushing because of each step takes you closer to your goal and makes you find a way out and When people want to help you, they see that all you do is complain. They find it difficult to help you, and some of them even believe you don't want to do anything with your life apart from complaining.
One thing people don't know is that nobody knows the future. Nobody ever knows if something will work, there is no certainty in what we are doing that will generate something good for us. Even with this lack of certainty, people are still positive and continue doing what they believe without complaining.
I am not telling you not to worry about past mistakes and the future, but we must not dwell on that because worrying and complaining about anything will not change the reality in front of us. We must change the fact that we must do something to change our situation and what we must do to make a change is what we must keep doing even when we do not get the actual result yet.
Nobody cares
Hardly will you see people that care about your problem. So why complain and not do something now? Why feel entitled to another person? Remember that everything we do add up and our situation will change if we just keep doing what is right and keep believing.