today I will show you how to know people come to your life whom we want to construct a relationship, how do we know that they are the one we spend time together
I borrowed the image of trees, leaves, branches, and roots to tell you in operation distinguish the kind of relationship that we want to build.
first person type "people leaves"
some people for your life like leaves of the tree, they are only with you by the season, you can not depend on or trust because they weak and only make you cool temporality. They just stay with you to take what they need because leaves absorb nutrients so they can stay on branches, when the weather becomes chilly or wind blows stronger they leave you but you can not angry with them because they are leaves.
second person type "branches people"
someone come to you like the branches, obviously they stronger than leaves people but you still have to be careful of them, they can stay with you for many seasons and situations but in the face of a life-threatening need to pass you can lose them. for example: in harsh circumstances they able be broken even though they are stronger than leaves people you have to test before you can trust and give them some burden of responsibility and in most cases they can not carry a heavy burden of responsibility because limitation of branches, crunchy. Once again you can be mad them because they are branches
Third person type: " the root person"
if you can find someone like the root of the tree, that means you have found a special person, It is difficult to find them because they are not trying to show you, their mission is to keep you standing and help you live a healthy and healthy life, If you are happy they are happy, If you feel wretched they share, they stand behind you and do not let the world know they are behind you and experience the storm s of life they side by side to keep you standing and to nurture you, to believe you. sometime the root leave you alone when leaves have fallen away, broken branches you look like wilting anf lonely but the root pump the resin silently to keep you alive
Our life is like a tree with numerous leaves and branches but only one the root
to be more specific I suggest you take your phone book to know How many leaves and branches you have? and How many root have you got?
especially what are you in the life of others, you are leaves, branches or the root
do not ask what you want others to do for you, you must take nitiative first
I wish you were always the root of others.
the strong man is the one who lifts others on his shoulders
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