Don't demand what you don't give

Sandro and Emeli had already been married for 12 years, they met at a racecourse, she was a bookmaker and he was a bettor, they had a 10-year-old son named Marlon, they had already had two losses, Marlon in his daily life sees his mother playing bingo, numbers and everything that is lottery and his father like that, they demanded that he study but not even the notebooks checked him, his father didn't even know where he studied, his mother because she had to register him because she knew his school but he went home all the time alone, They wanted him to be polite with manners and in his house what was heard were bad words, there was no permission, not one please but a get out of there, there was no good night, there was nothing, by the way Sandro was an alcoholic and what he got was to fight, The boy grew up seeing and hearing that from his parents they demanded order but they took off their clothes and left them on the floor, their shoes in the entrance, they asked him for responsibilities and they didn't have them, they didn't scrub, they didn't wash the bathroom but if they sent Marlon.

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Parents want our children to be better and have a better future, but if you don't give them the basics and lead them on their way, how do they learn? It is difficult, Marlon arrived with a test with 20 points very happy to tell his mother, she playing cards or bingo did not even stop him, he went to his father's place and less what he did was yell at Marlon, but if he came with an 08 there if there were problems, he became like them as he grew up, he just liked to bet, play bingo, cards, horses and even drink, he did not want to study and his parents were very upset but how did they demand if that was his day to day? They didn't make breakfast before going to buy the newspaper to see what number he went out to buy or what horse he won, Marlon didn't have good manners, he burped wherever he was, he threw gas, he didn't ask for permission and even less said good night, he arrived drunk, they started to complain and they noticed that this behavior when you see him on the other side he doesn't like, he was their mirror they saw themselves reflected in Marlon, he repeated the same pattern of life that his parents had but they didn't want for him.

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Don't demand more than you can give, set an example and don't show inappropriate behavior, don't swear, teach him to play metras no spinning horses no spinning horses no bingo don't ask him for anything he hasn't seen at home, Marlon wrote his life and never stopped playing horse and always came home drunk.