As a guy or man so to speak, i do not appreciate the idea of having a wife that just sits at home and bear kids neither do i celebrate them. I personally believe a woman does not necessarily have to be an office career woman but she can as well me an entrepreneur and employer of labour or to simply put a business woman.
This is because i believe in a marriage every workload of child upbringing, house chores etc and financial burden should be shared by both the husband and the wife. It is not necessary the sharing percentages should be equal, in some aspects like finance the husband takes more responsibility and there are other aspects the wife takes more responsibility but all in all both of them are meant to be partners who compliment each other efforts.
We are living presently in an age where depending on just the income gotten by the husband can spell doom for the family, as most times the income might not be commensurate to the expenses but when the woman is also a working class or a business woman, as the backbone of her husband, the little she assists with would go a long way in their finances and relieve her husband from not overworking himself while trying to provide for the family.
Aside from the above points, i personally believe as well that every woman, young lady or girl should be allowed to have an ambition and work towards their ambition. Marriage shouldn't be an hindrance towards that provided she's able to synchronize her workload with her family obligation and duty with respect to the upbringing of her children and taking care of her home. I so much believe every man out there should allow their wives the opportunity to work towards their ambition but the husband and the wife should communicate well in order to define their respective duties so that it won't affect their wards.
However, over ambitiousness on the part of the woman can spell doom for the marriage and her family as she would place her work over her family which shouldn't be so, both work and family are equally important and none should outweigh the other, if anything should outweigh the other it should be the family.
Conclusively, i appreciate and celebrate the idea of marrying a career woman but not an overly ambitious one.
