I think many people have the same problem and I also think it will depend on what you want to get out of this experience.
I came with no expectation two years ago and have been pleased with the interaction. Are there pitfalls and downtimes. Yes. But, real-life can be like that too.
Just looking here at all the comments makes me think you don't realize what you already have.
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