People are different . Even Children from the same parents have different personality trait. It is our inability to understand ourselves that breed trouble among us from time to time. The first step in staying in peace with fellow man lies in understanding of his character. Mastering his likes and dislikes and then adapting and playing back to him based on his personality trait.
I could say when you understand human nature it is at that point that one may allow himself to be defrauded so that peace can reign. It is at this point of understanding human nature that love is exposed.When you love a person that is nice, well behaved and humble, you have done nothing because it is natural to admire and love good things but when you love that imperfect man perfectly, it stand to be supernatural.
For clarity of understanding human nature wish to classify peoples approach to use into different category
- Expressive category
- Amiable category
- Analytical category
- Cool and reserved category
Expressive category:
This category is very sharp and smart even to overcome obstacle which the ignorant that follows them suffers. They are popular and pious in appearance, always seeking authority, freedom to do all things, whether good or evil, prestige, difficult assignment that will ring them to limelight. Will like to know everything or activities of all but will never permit anybody to know their own.How do you cope with such group?
- Develop the right attitude towards them and see if there is room for improvement
- Dwell mainly on their identifiable good trait that will bring above peace.
- You must also avoid their interest areas.
The amiable category
Exchange of ideas and industry is thir preoccupation. Their creating ability is high because no room is given for gossip and critisms. And if they must criticize, it must be constructive. They are highly tolerant, protecting their social status without hurting anybodys feeling. They carry people along in all they are doing, they use friendly words on people while expressing their restraints because they believe there is absolute freedom anywhere in the world.How do you deal with them?
- Emulate their good qualities but do not annoy them
- Envy will only generate bad blood in you and will make you not to appreciate good things
- If you cannot associate with them, do not try to discourage or frustrate them for that may bring about conflicts
Analytical category
Average minded person dominate here. They will always analyse, investigate and scrutinize everything that comes their way. This group will have the right answer even before the question is asked but only to discover that they missed it all. They like pleasurable places that offer them opportunities to experiment evil.How do you stay with such people?
- Dwell with them in weakness and avoid learning their habit
- Do not attack them directly for that will bring conflict
The cool and reserved category
This group pretend that all is well when they are boiling inside. It is from this group that all hurts and injuries to fellow man spring up. To them nothing works at all. They are not easily entreated because nobody knows their mind. They are easily initiated and very violent. They ask inquisitive question that will generate together. They love bondage using religious covering to cloak wickedness. They specialize in making people unhappy.How do you cope with them?
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It call for wisdom.
- Always meet them when they look a little friendly and approachable.
- Brighten them up by stimulating friendly discussion using appreciation and admiring strategies.
- Lastly apply accommodation strategies.
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