Perseverance is key to never truly failing at anything, we keep going forward to reaching what we want to reach no matter what obstacles we encounter or negative influences arise against us.
We only truly fail once we have given up, things might get really hard. Stop, take a deep breath and look at the situation from a different perspective.
What to do when you fail
If you are constantly failing at achieving a goal change the way you are trying to achieve it. Similarly, if you are failing in other things try a different approach to the situation, it doesn't help you when you keep doing the same thing over and over again.
One key thing to note is you can not solve a problem within the problem, you have to think differently try something different. We often cause failure for ourselves and blame others for us failing, this doesn't solve the issue we are faced with but makes more problems which can lead to more failure.
Everyone fails, so do not feel ashamed of failing you are not alone and I am sure someone has had the same problems as you or very similar ones. When you have failed stop trying to understand why you failed but concentrate on what you can do differently.
Learning from others failures is key in not having to fail as many times, we are all different thus making our mistakes perhaps similar in nature but different for each one of us.
How we react to our failures is our choice, we can give up, blame others, or take it as it comes and move on or study it out and learn from the failure.
No one can force us to fail neither can the force us to react in the way they want to our failure. We are responsible for what happens to us, our thoughts and emotions, when people are trying to make you fail or are pushing you down try harder, do better.
I always used to fail at English in most of my younger grades, I hated English so much and this was probably one of the biggest reasons why I failed the subject. My attitude prevented me from participating in class and failing in tests, I had already given up.
I always blamed the teacher or the students, only years later did I realise the error of my ways. If we really want something we will not let anything get in our way. When we want something so badly we will not sleep we will not eat until we have gotten what we want.
Do you want something really badly? What are you willing to do to succeed in achieving it, even if you fail countless times?