Top reason is…THEY’RE BORED! Husband’s out working, they watch the kids all day, nothing exciting is going on for years. Someone see’s them and they feel like the hot girl in school all of a sudden. They give in to the temptation because they feel wanted for a change.
Lack of sex life. Sex with one person gets mundane. Husband only likes it certain ways, and he doesn’t get adventurous anymore. Or, the husband is a “nice guy” and just likes making love (meaning missionary with a lot of kissing). Sometimes, women want a guy who’s gonna pin them down, f*** them hard, and make them cum several times. That’s what women came to expect from me.
Best of both worlds. A lot of people ask why don’t women who want to cheat just leave their husbands. Sorry, fella’s…between her two guys, you pay the bills. You’re the reliable one. From me, she’s gonna get the leg-shaking sex (even online). From you, she gets everything else. The bills are paid, she’s gonna eat, kids are taken care of, and she talks to guys like me while you’re at work. Or, as us red pill men say: Alpha f***s, Beta bucks.
This one is kind of sad: they cheat because they feel the men they’re cheating with actually APPRECIATE them. It’s so easy to get a housewife by telling her how pretty she is, or talking to her about her talents, or talking to her in general. People want that feeling they get on a first date…things you’ve likely long ignored. Yeah, she’s beautiful to you…but you likely don’t tell her near as often as she’d like to hear it. And she doesn’t want to just be beautiful, she wants to be smokin’ hot so that you’re filled with lust when you look at her. She got that from guys like me, but not so much from guys like you.
Ultimately, she’s selfish. She wants to have her fun at your expense. In most of these cases, she's already had multiple partners long before and after she met me. But please believe…if she finds out you're cheating as well, hell hath no fury like future ex-hubby is about to get.
She doesn't love you. Most likely, she's been planning for years on how she's gonna get rid of you once and for all. You hear those stories where “It's like she just stopped loving me out of the blue”? Nah…she stopped years ago. She's long been planning this, bro.
She found a guy willing to do what you want. One of my affairs was actually seeing another while she was with me, and chose to be with the other guy because…no lie, he fulfilled her rape fantasies. I'm no saint, and many of you may be seething at me reading this, but even I wasn't willing to go that far. Don't be fooled by her “I have the best hubby in the world” posts on social media. I know a woman who constantly does that on FB, and yet I have downloaded videos of her giving an epic blowjob to a guy she cheated on hubby with.
Were you her first love, or did she only have one or two partners before you? Well, she felt like exploring…seeing if she's still “got it.” She may feel she's still hot enough to do better than you.
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