Same here I hate washing dishes. I am the cook and my partner will take care of the mess that I create. Just now when I am typing this, he is doing the dishes - thank god.
One tip to help with the grease from cooking is using kitchen paper towels or tissue paper to wipe them off before cleaning. I find it really good for both cleaning tasks and it helps to prevent blockage from the kitchen sink. I also collect all the used kitchen paper towels to re-use for this specific task and I am so happy that we can save the earth by doing this little thing.