I am more the on the fence type myself because I realize, no one actually knows the "truth". So I listen to different perspectives and respect opinions. I try to hold a neutral ground and not be judgmental, listening while questioning. Now, this questioning may not always be toward the individual that sparked it, but my own reasoning in my mind. Sometimes I realize its better to let people talk "their truth" and not question it, as that may lead to long conversations full of ego that I am not really up to. But sometimes I realize this kind of engagement in necessary, so I guess it is something I need to work on.