while others take the risk of building a life with someone who has enough qualities to take charge of a family and make it get ahead in company of your spouse.

I know many cases in which both have started from the bottom and have managed to carve out a good future.

Thanks for giving me hope. !LOLZ

But still, the points you included in your post are very logical.

Thank you very much. I really need those words as writing takes a lot of time and without feedback sometimes authors felt lost. !PIZZA is on me. Thanks for valuable feedback.