I see it kinda like this. Love thinking through this.

1. God

2. A. Wife

3. B. Kids

4. My well being

5. A. Career

6. Neighbors, friends, family

7. A. Church

I see taking care of wife and kids and part of 1 because that is what I see God wanting. Putting him first is putting my wife and kids first.

1. you have to keep yourself right so you can provide and be there for your kids and wife.

2. taking care of the rest.