You Can forgive, But You Can't Forget.

I hope you all are well, I am also well, so today's topic is interesting and there are many special things that I have also learned in my life at the age of 30, so I am going to share some such experience with you in this post today, why those things do not go away for good, sorry, we do it to a person every other day, but whenever he remembers the past time, why does he hurt us, why does he hurt us, so all these things we are going to discuss in this post today and this post is going to be very interesting, I hope you will definitely read this entire post.

We all have relatives who come to our house but they do things that we forgive them for at the time but the things they do and their dialogues are something we remember for the rest of our lives. Now, when we have a house and there are few earners and the conditions of the house are not good, whenever our relatives come to our house, they will make fun of our things and all these things make us feel very bad and then after some time, we will apologize but we will never be able to forget these things.

Now, the way relatives do, they do not come to your house for 10-15 years because you are poor and then after that if you get money or become rich, then the relatives start to come to your house. So how can it be that we forget the words of these people and improve our relations with them? This does not happen at all. Here again, most of the issues that happen, especially in Asian countries, are related to property because we are relatives and we go out together, our children grow up together, but with the passage of time, when things become known and the truth comes out,

Then we stop meeting each other and only meet at events because those things are alive in our hearts and whenever someone does something wrong to our parents, we remember those things and our effort is that if we have done good to a person, it has been useful in his bad time, so if bad times come to us, he should not laugh at us and if he cannot help us in our bad time, he should not make fun of us. And these are the people who make fun, their words are always remembered and that is why people here go to other countries and then earn money and show it to their relatives because of which you used to make fun of us.

Today we have earned that money and then the relationship is there. The stars are inviting us, but when things happen in our hearts, love can never be the same again. Now, the way we have been told about the shares of property, this is not done here under the Sharia system. The brother who is there does not give a share to his sisters. Then the fights start from here. And when the children grow up, they understand things. The children of the brother are living a good life and the children of the sister are not living a good life. Then the children start thinking that our maternal uncles have wronged us and have not given us a share.

And then these matters continue in this way throughout their lives. And then what happens is that the love for the relatives completely ends. Then after that, when there is a divorce or a marriage, only then do they meet each other. And then here our elders are like that, they keep telling us to make our relations good and to love each other as before, but I believe that when we used to love each other well, then in this way property gets mixed up and then there are many other matters that spoil relations between relatives.

Now the way relatives want to make relations with each other grow up, but when there are so many things in the hearts since childhood, then these relations can never be made. So here I say that if such matters are to be done, those who have been in relations since childhood should keep the affairs in their own good way and make every decision thoughtfully because these things can be forgiven temporarily but good cannot be done. Even today, if we look, we will see such problems in every family and they will continue in this way throughout their lives.

When children's hearts are not pure and then these relationships are made between them, then a lot of problems arise. Therefore, it is better that the children's relationships first find out from each other that they like each other and want to live with each other, only then should the relationship be made. Otherwise, it should not be made. Later, there will be a lot of problems. So what I want to say here is that we apologize to each other every day, but the things that have been in our hearts for the past few years never end from our hearts.

Then gradually, the result is that we stop meeting each other and then we don't even see each other. And after a long time, we meet each other. Therefore, it is better that such issues are resolved at the beginning so that we don't have to face problems later. Life seems very easy, but it is not easy at all, and when a person starts thinking, he goes into depression and spends a lot of time in depression. Therefore, it is better to keep a few people with you who are sincere with you.