Over Time We Learn to Control Ourselves.

I hope you all are well, I am also well, so this is the last topic of this week and it is quite interesting, so here I want to share my experience with everyone. It is a fact that with the passage of time, so many changes occur in us, which we cannot even think about when we are 18 or 20 years old, because at that time we are young and we say that we will fight and get what we want, but with time, some things change like this. If we have given something to someone,

There is also a contract and if that person cannot fulfill it, then we give him extra time and do not spoil our attitude because when we get older, things change a lot because after getting older, a person becomes sick and thinks that one day he has to die, so there is no need to fight here and the environment of this world should be kept good by all the people of the world together so that we can live a good life with each other.

Now here I will tell you an incident from my neighborhood some time ago. Here, all the people live together and know each other, but whenever there are young boys, there is always a problem. Some time ago, there were two friends of mine. We used to sit together and talk together. But something happened that two boys had a fight and it became a big problem. Then,

After the problem escalated so much, in the end, the police had to be called. At that time, they were 17 years old. At that time, we were seeing that because of their youth, they had a fight. But if such a situation happens today, we will see that both the boys will back down because they know that fighting has never benefited anyone in life and will not benefit anyone in the future. After every fight, there is reconciliation and communication with each other again.

A better and wiser person is one who, for a few minutes of anger, remains silent so that the anger can go away. A man is recognized only because he keeps his word and here we see that in our society, when someone promises to do this or that, then that work has to be done again in any case. If a person does not do that work or if someone entrusts something to another person and he betrays the trust and does not return it on time,

Then his respect in the market in the neighborhood is lost and no one trusts that person again. With time, many changes occur within a person. Now, the age from 18 to 22 is the age of madness and we think that we will fight the whole world and shake the whole world. And after that, when we reach the age of 27 or 28,

The person's thinking also changes a lot and the person thinks that it is useless to fight with anyone because we have seen the results of such fights that after fighting among ourselves, we kill each other and later only there is nothing but a life of regret. I used to do this before. When we were riding on a motorcycle on the road, we would fight with each other because of taking a wrong U-turn or in all such cases. We would stand up and start fighting and then we would also damage each other.

Some would break the motorcycle parts, some would slap each other. But here, I have seen such people regretting it later. We used to be like that before, but now, with time, we have changed a lot within ourselves because we know that this thing is of no use. Temporal anger. If we don't get angry, it will benefit our life and people will also praise us. If we start fighting, people will also start fearing us and will not praise us at all.

Therefore, it is better to back off in time, especially in fights. Because even here, if we go to jail, there are many people who kill other people just because they get angry and then spend their whole lives in jail have to spend. Today, if we go to prison and ask these people how beautiful their lives would have been if they had not made this mistake and they would also be living a free life.

All of us, as people, cannot live in a room and this is a punishment because there is a human being to whom God has given everything, including hands, feet, arms, and a brain. He cannot live in a room. He will go out, see things, see natural sights. His mind will change and he will be much happier. After a free life, when a person goes to prison, many things are understood and a person thinks that if we have made a contract with someone,

Then we must fulfill it and in this way we should not fight with anyone and because of this, a person does many wrong things, so we should not do it. So here I am saying that all people have to control their anger and if contract is made with a person, then it becomes obligatory on the other person to fulfill it. My friend also had a fight once and he was sent to jail for two days at night and then he started getting very upset.

He was beaten there and this is what is done in the jails of Asian countries. Whoever goes there is beaten and mistreated. The system here is very bad and the government should try to fix this system so that the citizens here can also live a free life.