Both Parents are Necessary For Good Upbringing of Children

I hope all of you are doing well, I am doing well, so the topic of today is interesting and we start it from here that if both the parents are alive in this world, then they can do the best upbringing of the child themselves, and if one of the parents has passed away, then one can try as much as possible to raise well,

But there is definitely something missing because now we are 27-28 years old and we have also seen in our life that someone there are people who die and their children become successful in this world and there are some whose parents also work hard but the children cannot do anything nor can they get good education, so here I am saying that the responsibility of raising children is the responsibility of the parents,

If they do well, the children become doctors and engineers. We see that here there are some parents who send their children to the hostel when they are not so old and we have seen some parents who get tired of the children's mischief and send them to the hostel life, so this is their biggest mistake because we know that the hostel life is not good.

I would like that if a child is born and his mother has left this world, then the father takes good care of him, be it children or whatever, everyone has to grow up one day and it is a fact that what is left can never be filled, even though we see that the children who do not have a mother are taken care of by the father but still they always miss the mother because in many places it happens that the way the mother thinks and serves the children. A father cannot at all.

Marriage is the name of compromise. If two people get married, then they should think about all the things beforehand, whether the situation is good or bad, the children should be raised well so that they can become a good person and serve the society in the future. So here I am going to share an example with all of you.

We have seen it with our own eyes. There are two husbands and wives. In the beginning, everything is fine, they have two children, and later they fight and it hurts both of them. In the beginning, children are very intelligent and get the highest marks in the class. The boy who happens to fail is the boy who always got the highest marks in the whole school.

After the child, the mind was there but he could not focus on his studies. They used to fight because of some things and he was very worried because of this. He continued to go to school like this for some time, but the child who was he was quiet and did not say anything and his studies were getting worse every day. Then when the school people found out that the child was in depression because of this,

They tried a lot but the child only said that I want to see both parents together then I will start working hard again, but he never could again and the parents were separated, so the child who was there also stopped studying and how long he was sick, he was in depression, so this is a loss.

Then they can focus on their studies, so it is better that these are some life decisions that should be taken with a lot of thought so that the children's lives are not spoiled in the future. One or two lives are not ruined because of the fight of parents, the whole family goes into trouble and then the life of a family is ruined. When the children are not happy, the parents will be nothing,

Then the parents of the children will not be happy and then the life will start to deteriorate. If we go, all these problems can be avoided if here we see that boys and girls are in love and they are not married, and the disadvantage of marrying in separate places is that they do not love each other, then the children cannot get a good upbringing. If we want things to start getting better in the society,

Then we all have to compromise with each other to raise our children well. If we live in a colony, then all the people have to work together to give the children an environment that makes their brain work well and then they can become doctors or engineers and support their families in the future. If the children do not get a good environment at home, then they will never succeed.

We want to see that the environment at home is not good, parents fight with each other, but they want their children to get good grades, so this can never happen. You should send your child to an English medium school, and if Urdu is spoken in your home, it becomes difficult for him to learn English. School people have to teach and they teach and also give degrees.

But the upbringing is done by children from home parents teach them everything how to respect the elders and love the little ones here all things we learn in school but if we learn from home we learn all things better and children also start to follow it and then here we see that the coming time for parents.

And it is pleasant for children and parents are happiest when children are successful in studying. You all comments are very important and very happy to read and learn a lot. Hope you like this post.