There is nothing as interesting and amazing as keeping secrets right?… do you know it has its own disadvantages too? You live like you don’t exist, make people wonder and ask questions. These people wonder in confusion for just a single fact; you are familiar, yet strange.
Dark in definition could be something mysterious and also not clear to the understanding.
Secret in its own term could be something kept from the general knowledge and sometimes a mystery.
– Dictionary (WordNet 3.0 Copyright 2006 by Princeton University)
Keeping secrets mostly makes you different from the other person because it shades the other side of you. Is this right?
Secrets are hard to reveal. Most times you feel going anonymous would solve an immediate purpose and most times you feel letting it out would clearly state why you should not be trusted.
Sharing your secrets come with its pros and cons which may sometimes work in your favor or not. Not all secrets can be told, but telling a few can go a long way to helping others.
Example:
Bill Gates’ few secrets to success is a motivation to any beginner (minnow) aiming to be a success in business. lol
These among others are secrets that would go a long way to helping lives. I think with this, we see that it is important to share some secrets. Not all, just a few. Especially the success secrets.
My dad would always say, “When you get married, make sure family secrets remains in the family”.
I noticed that most kids especially teens keep a lot of secrets. Then I thought maybe they’re scared of actions you the parents/ guardians would take after they “let the cat out the bag”. How do you make your kids trust you to that point of letting you know his/her every secret? I think you need to ask yourself that.
I think there are so many more, but I’ll have to stop here.
These are few advantages and disadvantages;
Advantages
• Keeping your secrets gives the world less options to pick a fight
• Dealing with peoples decisions and critics won’t be necessary
• You don’t involve in embarrassing discussions
Disadvantages
• You will be deprived of support and help
• People feel forsaken when your secrets are brought to light one way or another
• People keep away from you
CONCLUSION
In the world today, I have found out that we all have our own opinions to this very topic and if I’m asked what I think about it, I will simply say that it is absolutely okay with me if you need to tell some secrets.
Remember, “The more you leave out, the more you highlight what you leave in.”
― Henry Green
STOP BY ANYTIME, AND ALWAYS REMEMBER TO:
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