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DOUBLE DATING IS A NO NO FOR ME.
THE STORY OF LEAH AND RACHEL: Jacob loved Rachel but he deceived by the father in law.because on the wedding day the face of the bride was to be covered,so his father in law give Jacob Leah because In their culture first born where to marry first and Leah was the first daughter but Jacob was not aware of the law,so he still stayed back and payed Rachel bride price and he married Rachel but did you know that God was jealous for Leah, because Rachel was loved more than Leah by their husband and he blessed Leah with children and block the womb of Rachel so that Leah can be loved by her husband but still Jacob loved Rachel more than Leah, for years Rachel was childless, until God showed her mercy by reference (Genesis chapter 29-30) I know someone will see relationship is not marriage but it is a road to marriage and when you have missed it in relationships, it's hard to get it right in marriage, and double dating must times is the reason for infidelity in marriage .
Yes it is very possible to be in love with two people at the same time but it's not fair to date two people at the same time because the love can never be equal.self control is virtue.
Let me explain why I said so because your heart was created for one person not two people, something times double dating can be tempting considering the financial benefit but then how about your peace of mind, sometimes even dating one can be very stressful,if you are genuinely in love with a person you have to create time for him then imagine that they are two like seriously,it has a way of affecting your mental health.
Am sorry to say but even makes you look cheap when they later discover and you will end up losing the two of them, because no one will want to settle for some one who is confused and undefined
If you are dating one person you will be free at anytime and where to post him or her as your partner.
love is not for babies is for matured minds.
