Ugh sorry to hear that you had that awful experience, people are awful! I don't want to make this about me but just to let you know that I totally understand you, you won't even believe that my friends in college called me "fat" and I wasn't even fat. People will always have something to say anyway so it's best to just do whatever we want, take care of ourselves, and not care. Not totally care about what other people think (relatives count - block them even lol yes we can for the sake of our mental health). Easier said than done I know but we'll get there...So to hell with them lol.

The constant body-shaming scarred me so now I am so careful of what I eat. I don't even want to have kids lol. I do lap swimming regularly (peaceful, relaxing, and even better than gym imho!).