I mentioned why is irrelevant.

You're the one who brought it up in the first place 😑

Anyway I never said you were that guy.

You were literally saying "you" which can only be referring to me.

Just take the engagement.

What does that even mean? Sorry but your English is hard to understand, I can respect you practicing the language to get better at it, but please don't argue with people until you can speak properly.