Family system is damaged too. People are being selfish towards the kids too. They want kids to help them, govt to help them, and they would want to live life like a king. And they want to use and throw kids. I feel family and marriage system getting damage in this era was long overdue and more would follow as long as the manipulation and backstabbing, control and other negative elements in the family don't get addressed. I guess retirement is kind of like pain unless you have all theses cards managed.