I am that kind of person who is direct by nature. I've been trying to learn how to manage it for years now and I must say that I am progressing. I do understand that words can hurt and I don't want to hurt people. But when I was younger I would say things the way they were and not everyone could take it. I realized that I can't expect everyone to cope with the truth (or whatever I considered being the truth) and I started to adjust myself. It was the best thing I could do..

I am sorry to hear that you had such experience in relationship. I do truly hope that those ladies were not aiming to hurt you though :)

Thank you for sharing such private experience! Have a good day!