Are you still sitting until the night, developing presentations in "Around the World" and doing crafts when the child is already asleep? There are several reasons why you should not take classes with children.
✔ The school is a great opportunity to inculcate responsibility.
Was the child in the first grade? Great, stop seeing him as a baby. Let the student do his homework and pick up textbooks the next day. Their years of study have ended, school is the responsibility of the children themselves. The child must understand that he is learning, and not mom and dad.
✔ Parents, take care of your nerves.
Some adults still remember how the parents sat with them until the night during the algebra tasks and helped them ... If you plan to spend 11 years in instructions and notes, your child's interest in learning and motivation will not come exactly.
✔ From total control to an irresponsible person.
How can a child become independent if everything decides, what to do and when? It will grow as an actor who can not take responsibility, even for a bad evaluation.
✔ A child as a child must learn to prioritize.
Our children do not feel the time. Because the school schedule consisted of teachers, parents recorded the classes and sections, everything was supervised by adults. As a result, school children sit in the textbooks until night because they are not time oriented.
If you constantly control the child, he will not be able to form in himself a quality as important as independence. They can be easily manipulated. These children will become good artists, but if they have to make a decision and take responsibility, they will fail.
The child must learn to take responsibility and be responsible for their actions. The school will be a great help in this. Start with the little things. Let the child prepare the clothes for the morning, pick up the backpack. Then proceed to more complex things - doing the lessons. Believe me, if a task like that was entrusted to you at school, it means that you will manage without you. You can only take a look at the end.
You need to be prepared for the fact that the baby will make mistakes. This is normal. There is no need to scold for every typo or misspelled word. It is better to dismantle the error and fix it. Nor is it necessary to blame bad grades. This will deprive the child of self-confidence, it will form many complexes.
"It is important that the child understands with his example: if he does not do his homework, he will receive a bad grade. But this does not mean you should ignore it completely. You can remind him of the lessons and then review them. But you can not do everything for him, and then the child will never learn anything. But at school it is important to obtain knowledge, not a good grade."
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