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Week 44 was very exciting starting from the first edition of the contest which was very exciting to discuss, to the last edition of the 44th week contest this time. Many contestants started to write and give their best thoughts in the contest in week 44 this time, and this is increasing from week to week of course. As announced, the last or third edition of the 44th week of the contest is about something we hate, in this case we are required to discuss one of the things we hate the most even we ourselves try hard not to get involved in it. So personally, of course, I also have one of the things that I hate the most, even though I myself find it very difficult to hate something. Therefore, this time I will explain it in this post.
So let's check this out...
Humans are creatures full of emotions and this can be influenced by the environment, interactions, or responses to certain things. There are many emotions in humans and each emotion represents something that is considered positive or negative. One of the most basic emotions is anger, and this anger naturally arises because most of it is influenced by things we don't like. This is of course something that is relative to humans, where things that sometimes make us dislike it are actually liked by other people, and this cannot be denied.
Talking about things we don't like, of course there are so many in this world, sometimes even ourselves are included in it. Of a series of things we don't like, of course there are things we really hate or don't like and sometimes we ourselves try not to do them even though we have the ability or opportunity to do them. I myself also have it and I don't even want to do it even though I have to do it, but strangely there are people who think it's normal and it's normal, or maybe for them it's something they like. Of course this pissed me off and I didn't even want to see them doing it.
I really hate people who belittle, ridicule, or judge other people from their mistakes regardless of the positive things they have done. The reason I consider this as one of the things I hate the most is because I myself have experienced it, done it, and even seen other people do it. This is so inhumane, and I don't even want to work with people like that. Of course, in groups, schools, or workplaces there are still many people who consider other people to be losers just because they made a mistake without seeing the thousands of other good things they have done, and this is unfair in my opinion.
It seems to me that people like this are actually powerless compared to the people who are the object of their ridicule, because people who have manners, ethics, and intelligence will not put other people down just because of one mistake, of course they will try to see their side. positives of the person first before ridiculing them.
I have seen things like this and the reason I hate it is because it is very detrimental and kills the beliefs, talents and mentality of other people and one of the causes of bullying is because of this, where a group of people ridicule or belittle other individuals or groups who are more small just because of a mistake they did. This also happens a lot and we experience a lot of course, but this is human nature which is actually a loser where he can only mock and belittle without contributing anything.
I've also been a victim of this, and I've also experienced it when I was in school. Those bastards won't say anything when we do something that benefits them, or other positive things, they feel indifferent to the positive things we do, but a mistake we make makes them the first to discuss it it's as if they are waiting and looking for the little mistakes we do, and this is very disgusting. Of course, this will never go away, no matter where we are, in whatever country, even those who look polite, kind, and sincere will definitely do this at any time if they have the chance, even if it's only in their hearts. I really curse people like this, they don't even fly to live in this world with their nature that exaggerates the mistakes of other humans without caring about the good things that have been done.
Usually things like this happen a lot in offices, schools, or other competitive places. Sometimes there are people who don't have any ability, they can only see their friends doing their job well, achieving and so on. Of course those who don't have any ability are just trying to wait for a mistake and they will exaggerate it so that other people give hate just like he did. This is of course very easy to kill someone's character, make him depressed, and even make him not as productive as he should be. If we want to compete with our opponents, of course, don't take advantage and wait for his mistakes, but try to compensate in a positive way, that's what makes us look better.
We ourselves never know who is waiting for a mistake from us and makes us guilty forever just because of a small mistake, but trying to ignore it is the best way. For me, an error is a natural thing for every human being, because no human is perfect, therefore we must complement each other so that we can cover up the imperfection, instead of exaggerating a small mistake so that it becomes big, only we are unable to compete positively. . But for those who have high knowledge, extensive knowledge, and positive associations, they will not do such embarrassing things, they instead choose to forgive every mistake and try to hide it and not spit it out, because that's how it should be.
It's true, in a group like at work, school, and other competition venues, one person's mistakes are lessons for others, but we must try our best not to look down on those who make mistakes but rather we should correct them if we are humans . In essence, a good human being will not make many mistakes without any positive things he has done, as bad as human beings are, there must be something good from him. And we as good human beings, should not exaggerate someone's mistakes at will without seeing the thousands of positive things he has done and even more than we do.
Because in this life we will be appreciated and considered if we do the same with the people around us.
That's what I really hate and I hope you are motivated by my writing. Thank you and see you at the contest next week.