haha join the club 😃 Many of us have been yelling for many many years.

If you want a great book about all this, look up "Dogs and Demons" by Alex Kerr. Here it is

https://amazon.com/Dogs-Demons-Tales-Dark-Japan/dp/0809039435

It is slightly out of date at this point, but he does lay out very well the problems of modern Japan. He takes pains not to bash, but he also doesn't hold back. It's a very enlightening read.