When we think that life makes us stronger and tougher in living everything in life, then we really follow everything we want.
However, sometimes what we want does not match the reality of what is happening in life, so we have to act that there are small possibilities that will have an impact on our expectations.
Therefore, the impact that occurs is not inversely proportional to what we want, although it is also not on the path we expected, but in my opinion it is a little different from what we expected, it is enough.
That's what makes my mindset that it's fun because we can fantasize in such a way to build creativity in my mind for how to describe how things happened.
also sometimes it makes our thinking power sharper so that we can think more critically than other people, so maybe we can be vocal of a group.