The word 'outrageous' can connote both negative and positive perspective. some individuals can be abnormally violent and fierce about everything, immoderate and uncultured towards life and humanity, while others can be unconventional and fierce towards achieving anything they are passionate about. For this post, i will emphasize on the latter. "Applying outrageous perspective towards achieving goals and targets"
There is always an extraordinary level of fulfilment and achievement in any area of interest in life. You can't only wish for it, You must fight and work for it without giving up easily. If you are always bold, fearless, unconventional, unlimited toward achieving any targeted goals then you may be perceived as been outrageous. That means you always fight violently for your right no matter the opposition and pains when it comes to achieving your plans and goals. If you are are a mediocre, always intimidated, afraid, trapped by norms, people's approval or criticism then you might live your life feeling safe, enjoying your comfort zone without total expression of your hidden potentials, no adventures, no impact. You are limited, achieving minimal or no results in your career pursuit.
Although! the magic is in spotting the thin line between being cultured and uncultured. Personally, I don't act outrageously in everything but when i desire to be better, unique, real and uncommon in an area of interest, i don't start playing safe all the time, i often face my fears, take up challenges, take unusual risk and accept responsibility for my success. I become violent and fierce when it comes to tackling obstacles between my plans and achieving them. I don't become violent and fierce when dealing with fellow humans. That's the balance.
I don't remember being outrageous with my goals when growing up. I was mostly gentle and usually giving up on my plans easily. I still haven't changed much even till adulthood. Nevertheless, i know better now.
What challenged me was when I became jack of all trade master of none, I became unprofessional in all I was doing. My music, business and academic career was on the mediocrity level and i was feeling unfulfiled within just because I couldn't be fierce and violent enough to pay the price for mastery. This inner dissatisfaction turned into pressure which set me on the search for more skills and personal development to attain dexterity in my music and academic career.
My outrageous approach was founded on the search for mastery. I am surely not uncultured in my search but I'm violent and fierce enough to pay the price to be the best at whatever I do. This has been my approach towards my interests in life till now.
Through my rage against mediocrity, I have obtained a master's degree in Chemistry, attaining a reasonable level of dexterity with the guitar and I'm still on the goal for greater mastery in music with time. I built my outrageous perspective only on achieving better results. And this much i know: Being Outrageous can be productive.
I am also vulnerable when I'm been compelled to work with people alongside my outrageous approach towards my personal goals. This happens because I mostly don't know how to come down to their level neither are they willing to join my outrageous approach towards goal getting. Then I can be perceived as uncultured and unhuman, this explain why I can be slowed down and bothered about achieving my goals-- this is where i cross many friends and people.
I often solve this vulnerability by putting others into consideration even when outrageously aiming for my goals. Whatever action i take i don't only consider myself but also others. I understand boundaries. i don't make privileges my right. I mind my own business even as i appreciate peoples input in achieving my goals. I'm quick to apologize if my boldness and outrageous approach is perceived as being inconsiderate and over-serious. l group people correctly. i don't make mere acquaintance confidants. I move with goal getters, great minds, so that they can motivate me and I also try to build others in line with my seldom outrageous approach, so that we can all continuously seek expectional achievements regardless the pains and obstacles.
So i hope this post helps you view the theme of this week's content differently. Obviously there are other exceptional post about the negative outrageous concept. I only attempted to share my own experience about it.
Thank you for your time, your sincere comments on this post will be highly appreciated.
