It's not about the things we were told, it's about the things we came to know. Sorry, there's right and wrong, and that's why there's the law to catch up with you when you do wrong. Try going to steal and be caught, then I guess when you see a tyre wrapped around you, you'll agree there's a right and wrong. Nobody is a saint, yes! But people are trying their best to be genuine so don't make it look like all their efforts are wasted. You probably haven't seen any, but I have so I can't agree with such assessment you make. It's probably and highly from a stereotype you had, what you might have been told as well. And, planning and understanding isn't the only reason people suffer in marriages. Meet people and listen to their testimonies you'll know better.
Sorry to say, but much of your assessments if you'll agree in all honesty are based on sentiments and stereotype. And, I can really see why. Cos by the statement that you admit that no girl has one guy, I can understand better. But again, it's a bias analysis from you for whatsoever reason. Please don't generalise and disapprove people who are being real bro. For what it may, continuing with such a mindset will only pollute you in marriage tomorrow.
And I don't think you really answered my question,"how will you feel to be at the end point of a double dating partner?" You just made a statement. But you can assess it in all honesty. Drop your bias!

Thank you once again 😁