Giving is one of the acts that humans are encouraged to do. From religious views and even perspectives that stem from sheer humanity, it's something to actually do, which is good that people are being encouraged to do so. We see online people doing that personally. Not only that, but we also see many NGOs, charitable organisations and foundations rising for this very purpose and agenda, from one part of the world to another.
As little as we can, we should endeavour to give. I know many people desire to give well and in good measure to help impact lives－I speak at least for those I know－but the lack of tangible resources or finance has been a hindrance. Nevertheless, it shouldn't stop one from giving. We should give according to the measure of what we have and when we can as we might be privileged. It's one of the most fulfilling things to do in life.
However, we must be mindful of the state of our hearts when we give. What are our intentions? Are there any undertones involved? Any unwarranted expectations? These are critical questions that determine if indeed our giving is true or not. I do say that true and real giving doesn't seek, ask or expect anything in return. It should be from a heart that's really and truly concerned about reaching out and helping a person or people who need it.
When expected returns come in, it's no longer a help. It's more like a personal investment where you get something in return for your help, or like a one-off purchase. Sadly, this isn't a theory or assumption, but a reality in our societies. Some people help and expect heaven and earth for the help they rendered. They could hinge it in a way on a person's life, through indirect servitude against the person's will. Direct servitude is also there.
It could be a form of adoration and worship that the helpers desire and command. These all seem like personal investments through the disguised lens of giving. In other cases, it could be that the person or people would have to offer something before or after the help. This is not from a one-off purchase, still under the guise of giving. The big question is, should the receivers or needy trade away their dignity for such disrespectful help and support?
Honestly, it's not an easy yes or no answer. When you see people who are really in need and barely surviving, it's hard to say they'll not succumb. It's about survival first, then other concerns can follow. But the issue is, after surviving, after receiving that help, what follows is regrettable. I would say that no one should trade their dignity for such help; while also making a rallying call that those who give should do so in good heart, with good intentions－to help.
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