This time on this steem, I'll be sharing with you the "'dos" and "don'ts" of a relationship with will definitely keep your relationship awesome and make it last longer. So seat back and relax as you read the following helpful hints...
Knowing something is bothering you but not speaking up: most men, if not all find this very irritating. Some relationships have ended because of this reason right here. He is not a mind reader. If you don't speak up, he won't know what the problem is. So next time something is bothering you, speak up.
Expecting him to know what you like: it wouldn't hurt to communicate your likes and preferences. This should be part of what you learn about each other at the beginning of the relationship. If you've never talked about this it, don't expect him to know.
Needing something and not asking: it's even worse when you go ahead to call him selfish or stingy. And let me also point out that how you ask for something you need is very important. Commanding someone to do things for you because they love you is totally out of line.
Don't try to change him: I'll tell you what, a man that loves his woman will go through the trouble of changing a few things just to please her only because he wants to. So before you say yes to another proposal, you need to think deeply about the future. Would you be able to put up with those attitudes 5 years from now, knowing fully well you won't be able to change him?
Making the relationship your ultimate source of happiness: there's a saying that "until you can find happiness and love within yourself, stay single". Don't ever cut your friends and family for him. Don't make that mistake ever. Yes, he should be your best friend but your life shouldn't be centered around your relationship or you'd crash if it crashes.
Not taking care of yourself: I hate when I see a lady all dirty and not in order and then she goes, my man don't care. He's God with the way I look. Listen dear sister, if when he approached you, you was wearing a beautiful small dress and heels, and that was the first thing that got him attracted to you, don't get angry tomorrow when he's checking out some chick wearing something good. Invest in some make up, body most, perfumes, etc. Look good, smell good. Do it for you.
Not giving him space: your man needs his boy time, I'll tell you as a man. And you too need your girl time, trust me. Let him be. If y'all still dating, don't visit him everyday. Give him space. Let him breath. He might never say this but sometimes, you overstay your welcome and it chokes him. Even as married couples, he still needs space. Learn to keep yourself busy with other things. Period.
Not appreciating his efforts: we were taught as little boys and girls to say thank you for every gift,little or large. So it really sucks when some people can't appreciate ones efforts. It doesn't necessarily have to be monetary or physical gift. Learn to appreciate, it's really important. In essence, you could miss out on a great man because of these mistakes. We can't always get a second chance to make things right. However, what we may get, is a new opportunity to make amends and start over.
Hopefully, with these few points, we can all strive to be and do better in our relationships. And for those not dating at the moment, don't forget what you've just read. It will help you prepare for when you're ready.
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