Hello Ladies of Hive!!
Happy New Month
So, during the weekend and I had my aunt's kids at the shop where I sewed, they came over because they really wanted to come to my work place. I'd promised them lots of times that I'd take them, so yesterday I had to keep that promise.
They did have fun, I got them snacks to keep them busy, I had work to do, they helped out with their little hands, I'd admit I did scream at them but kids and their lovely, innocent nature, I'd smile right back at them and we'd be friends again.
Children are sweet, little people . I don't have any kids yet , but honestly, I have beautiful plans for them.
I want a relationship with my children, some of us do not have that, some of our parents don't even know us.
We struggle with deep problems most of the time and well Mother could be in the kitchen , scolding you for leaving just a tea spoon in the sink.
I want my children to grow up where there's love,yes,in a world where love is almost getting extinct,I want my children to know what love truly is. I don't want them having misconstrued definitions of love. Love that is pure and innocent,yes , where else would they find such love apart from that of their parents,I want to be that kind. I wouldn't want my kids to hide most things from me ,I want to be able to help them conquer their fears, live rightly, love people, love God most especially.
I want my children to be the best version of themselves,yes ,I want them to be real, I want them to have good grades in school,be respectful, morally upright I want them to love what they can do and do what they love, legit stuff though,I want them to have the fear of God.
I'll be really intentional about the growth of my children.
I know some parent-child relationships are not firm, but you too can make a decision to make your children's growth a fun , lively, intentional process.
Correct them lovingly when they do wrong, appreciate their little efforts, teach them morals, teach them to love,teach them respect, give them your time and attention.
It'd help to strengthen the bond. Family would really come first.