There is this popular saying that is actually true, the rich mingle with the rich while the poor mingle with the poor but that's not all, the hustler also mingle with each other, I will come back to this later.
As for me, I'm not much of a friend-making person because I actually don't find it adventurous visiting people at home or going to parties, I mean just all those things they do in friendship it very stressful and I will not be able to keep up because I once tried it and my friend actually complained every day that I don't do this or that but for me, those things doesn't make us friends actually.
Well, the ones I call my friends now are amazing in the sense that maybe not now but there has been a time in my life when they actually stood by me and it definitely it is not monetary and that is what friendship is about but these days people assume a good friend as someone who spends for them, they go to parties together or something but for me friendship it more than that, what about when I'm down who is there for me to talk to? Who is constantly checking up on me and just when they need me? Who always pushing me to do good in life? This makes my social network very small because sometimes friends can be garbage and too much of it isn't good for one's health.
Well, every hand are not equal and the belief is everyone won't be equally rich, our determination and our goals in life are different and what we believe in is not the same, I would say we all are thriving in the part we chose to follow but some are definitely doing better than other because our background is different and the support is different but the most important part of it is that we don't let one of us lack when we know we have a way to help out and that's the beauty of true friendship and the thing about reaching out for help also applies to how you have contributed to their life. You can't sit at a table and all you do is just eat and not be food for others to eat.
One thing I'm sure of is, if I reach out to them for help they would definitely answer my call if they have a way to help out and if they don't just to show their concern and even if they don't help out that doesn't make them a bad person because I know we all have one battle or the other we are fighting and I can't assume you would leave your battle and come fight mine but I'm sure if they can they would because they have done it in the past and my friends are mostly my family and just four other people that we are not blood-related.
Well, maybe later in the future I will add more to my friend's list but for now, I'm okay with the ones I have because I am still struggling to keep up with them, I wish a tree could make a forest but it's not.
I hope you learn one or two from reading this? I'm preaching love always.
