I don't know what mean tends to understand that adult hood na scam but for me it means, when we were kids we look at our elderly one as having fun and stress free, waking up anytime they want, eating two meat, the freedom to go out and come back anything, having a relationship, leaving the house for days, we see all this things then as what adulthood is all about and we forget the responsibility aspects of it.

Now people refer to it as scam because what we thought life would be when we are adult is not what it is after we finally became adult