Thank you for writing this.
What calls my attention about the way you write is that it genuinely feels like you want to try to reach a consensus and understand things. You are empathetic but also assertive, and that is rare.
I wish I could refer to the article more directly, but it stirred up a few things. There are conversations we can't have until things cool down a bit.
RE: Rethinking The Paradigm Of Romantic Love