I thought of writing something about me but felt like am selfish so I decided to talk about what I once experience when my sister was about to give birth to her baby who is 8 years old now, so handsome. The husband was not around so she came home since we had a private clinic of our own.
I am not a father but has passed through some process of a father and will one day be a father and be more responsible.
Every human have his own pains he/she could handle and that is were our weakness comes from or breaking point as you can no longer hold on to pain but to reveal or let go.
Every woman is unique and stronger than the universal forces, they only match forward without a gun and find favors from men with super powers of the world.
A woman becomes pregnant from a drop of seed in her womb and bears the pain which I can't really explain better as she hold on till her delivery time is due. A woman goes to work, cook, keep the house clean, bath children if she has, pray, buy things in the market, pay bills, take care of her husband with a baby in her womb to care for too. I believe only a woman who has passes through this stage and a man too will know how it feels.
**MY SISTER EUREKA**
My sister baby started kicking around 10:30 pm till 1:00 am before she put to birth but how worried I was as if she was my child. Mum was inside the labor room with her workers assisting her in the delivery process. I was parambulating around the reception with some of my brothers and sisters as mum said Sam she delivered safe. We shouted in Joy forgetting it was a hospital. What a drama! I used to say that I will be the first to hold the baby in my arms so that when he grow I will tell him I was the first who took you on my arms as your uncle ( all was because of pride for him to know that we are his uncle.), so also my brothers will say same thing. We drag the door to the labor room just to have the baby first, guess who took the baby..... Samson the strongest man in Bible and when I got in and took the child from her arms she was crying with tears of joy and I also shed tears of happiness.
Joy in childbirth is a joy of several months of labor.
My words can't explain how they feel individually but I also felt something that day. I guess barren woman or a family face with frustration from siblings about childbirth will also understand how it feel when you finally have a positive pregnancy test after 15years or even 10 years and how joyfully a man becomes with tearscr and thanking God for prayers answered.
Thanks as you read through.