I just need to say when you are pregnant everything annoys you and by anything I mean your partner so the main philosophy behind that is this is my body at the end of the day even though it is our baby, but you are not feeling what I’m feeling everything that is happening right now is happening Just in my body and no one else’s so partner is going to objectively Tell you what you should or not should do and he will be smarty-pants and that’s actually not the best way of approach because it’s going to annoy you; always easier to give advice than to listen to it and it is with relationship advice with the work advice , with everything advice;with routine diet. I really mean it is really hard for you to be the perfect healthy Pregnant lady. It’s really hard. I’m so tired and the main thing is you should work out. You should go walk 10 steps every day, but I’m just, I can’t do that you know I am so tired I just can’t and when I go out other day I just really need to do literally nothing because I do think that I’m just going to I don’t know Die so it’s really hard to manage and to stay on the ground with being patient with one another, but we are making it to work somehow
Another thing is that I got sick and I felt really sick and I just can’t take anything, any drugs nothing I mean medication because you know I’m pregnant so I called my partner one day and I was like call my doctor I just don’t know what to do and how to cover myself and the bad approach that he had is OK he really helped me Instantly, but he was like blaming me for getting sick blaming me for not caring enough for being to nonchalant and he’s just like get dressed, get everything no no no no no no and it was just a lot of guilt on my back that is not good for one lady and he’s doing it all the time so we’re really managing the same language so we can both be satisfied even though I do think I get a little of extra viability because this is my body and I think that I know it’s best for it. :)
We are finding the gender of our baby actually today so I am not going to finish this post this evening when we find out so it’s going to be another post and I’m going to talk about about my mom. I’m just out of breath right now, trying to record this . I do spend a lot of time home, but actually, I feel like I’m more socially active than I was before pregnancy when I was working because I don’t find social event work because It’s my work and after work I do want to do nothing. After that you know, I lived with my mom so it was not The obligation of every day calls like now I have with my mom with my partner’s mom with my friends just feel a lot of actually social drowning, even though I’m not going out and seeing my friends as much, but I actually do go out just to be socially aware and not for work or anything else it’s just Really weird the balance and I catch myself not answering my phone for a few hours just so because I just can’t be socially interacted right now and when I do feel, I can’t talk to people. I just keep them back on the cold.
Couple of days is just raining and it’s actually kind of relaxing and kind suits me but very very soon. It’s going to be super hot like 30° so I am prepared for that.
