As many as 10 million females suffer from eating disorders in the U.S. and more than half of teenage girls use unhealthy weight control behaviors, according to the National Eating Disorders Association. Because of the secretiveness and shame associated with anorexia and bulimia, they often go undetected and untreated.
likely they will recover completely. However, according to Walden Behavioral Care, one of the country's leading programs for treating eating disorders, prolonged bouts with bulimia and anorexia that go untreated can result in osteoporosis, retarded growth, kidney problems, ulcers, heart failure, and even death.
There are steps moms can take to help prevent their children from developing eating disorders. According to the National Eating Disorder Association, parents should practice healthy body image attitudes and sensible eating habits for children to emulate.
Educate yourself and your children about the dangers associated with risky dieting and the importance of eating balanced meals consisting of a variety of foods. Encourage exercise, and do not avoid activities such as swimming because of insecurities about wearing a bathing suit.
Instilling healthy self-esteem in a child may be one of the most effective ways to stop him/her from practicing dangerous behaviors to change her body.
If you suspect that your son or daughter may have an eating disorder, the Harris Center at Massachusetts General Hospital suggests first meeting with a referred therapist without your child to discuss how to best approach him/her.
Once you talk to your son or daughter, express your love and tell him or her that you alone are concerned. This way he/she will not feel ganged up on by loved ones. If the child becomes angry or denies having a problem, remain calm. Remind the child that a parent worries and only wants to help him/her receive the support he/she deserves.
You may have to talk to your child multiple times before he/she agrees to get help -- even if the child knows he/she suffers from an eating disorder.
Some children need space before discussing a treatment plan. Others feel more comfortable knowing their parents have already made arrangements for help. This depends on the personality of your child. Work with a therapist experienced in eating disorders to help your child get the proper treatment.