Life does presents us with pain because, we are not in heaven yet. But here is what the Bible assures us
Psalms 30:5
Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.
That means, your pain is for the moment. We must not agree to be defined by our "night season" and grounded by your circumstances. A much better option is to arise in prayer. No matter what life has brings your way— pain, failure, delay, loss—you are not alone.
The Bible says believers around the world are going through the same kinds of trials and overcome them according to 1 Peter 5: 9. Hardship and sufferings are part of life but through prayer, you can rise above them. Trials are the soil in which testimonies emerge.